The New CHAPTER

We all experience different phases in our lives, some positive, some negative. Each phase imparts lessons, helping us evolve into better versions of ourselves. Everyone's journey is unique, and it's crucial to pay attention to the lessons learned along the way, as they ultimately make us stronger. Last week, I witnessed a double rainbow, a symbol of transformation and new beginnings. Inspired by this, I decided to start a new chapter—something untouched by previous ones. I deserve novelty and surprises. I've outgrown my old storyline. Let life be fresh, as I am ready for a new adventure.

Struggle is one of the many chapters in my life (as discussed in my previous blog). It has resurfaced several times throughout my journey, and that's alright because it has shaped me into the woman I am today. Pain is another chapter, and like struggle, it's okay, as it has made me stronger. We must recognize our chapters and reflect on what we can learn from them, whether positive or negative. What lessons can you derive from your chapters? Different chapters are essential in life as they define who we are. Sometimes, we need a fresh start to maintain our happiness. We all face challenging times, and while it's difficult in the moment, we must embrace the experience positively. Remind yourself that this too shall pass, and when it does, let it. Allow it to pass, but acknowledge what happened and how you envision your new chapter—it's entirely up to you. You can craft any chapter you desire, even incorporating beautiful experiences from other chapters into new ones. Perhaps you need to be more adventurous or compassionate, start a new hobby, get a tattoo, or dye your hair purple. Whatever you wish to do, you can. How refreshing does that sound? The chapters in my life that didn't serve me or my future are firmly in the past. However, I will carry the positive aspects into my new chapter. This chapter is centered on me, yes, me, and that is a bit selfish. I've always been the person who gives everything to everyone, prioritizing others' well-being over my own. I'm the one who walks around with a broken heart but smiles at the same time, the one who cries at night, yet you wouldn't know. I've always put others first, and while I won't change that aspect of my character, I need to incorporate some Amanda time. It's time for me to focus on my self-worth and love. By doing this, my kind heart will grow even bigger for others and myself. I'm truly looking forward to embarking on this new journey. We all need to be a little selfish sometimes; it doesn't mean you're bad, it means you need to take time for yourself. Check in with your mind, body, and soul. Understand your feelings and acknowledge what's happening in your life. Open the path to your brighter future, the path you're meant to be on.

Often, we neglect ourselves because life is so busy with work, family, relationships, and more. We constantly stress over various aspects of our lives, but it's crucial to take time to focus on ourselves. As mentioned earlier, concentrating on yourself will brighten your future, attract what you desire, and those around you will sense that positive energy. Carry yourself with a light so radiant that no one can ever diminish it. Let go of past experiences that no longer benefit you or your present. If you have experiences that were beneficial but mistimed, integrate them into your new chapter. You'll know their place and impact on your future. Life is a journey filled with mistakes and wonderful moments; it's all about how we acknowledge those experiences and what we do to shape our future.

MUCH LOVE

XOXO