I believe it's crucial to recognize the individuals in your life, whether it's a friend, family member, significant other, or the barista you see each morning. Recognition is a vital component in life; it is a strength that enhances these relationships. Equally important is acknowledging yourself. Here are some methods to appreciate loved ones, yourself, and those around you.
Say Thank you
Think about a time when you did something nice for someone and he or she didn’t acknowledge it with thanks. How did that make you feel? Don’t overlook the power of those two words and how they recognize a person. Manners are free.
Focus on Positive
It is often easiest to point out what your loved ones did wrong rather than right. Next time stop and say something positive to them. Tough love should always be balanced with positive feedback.
Give Gifts (doesn’t have to be material items)
Think of a reason to send someone a gift outside a birthday or anniversary. Or no gift just the simple gift of time and listening is enough. I always send cards. I find when you receive a card in the mail for no reason it can really brighten someone’s day.
Speak your Appreciation (this is one of my favorites)
Get in the habit of telling your loved ones you love them and appreciate them. Say it when it counts the most- in the moment, not when it is too late.
Brag in Public (also another favorite)
If there is someone in your life who you feel should be recognized, do something public about it. It could be a speech in front a friends or a post on social media. What is important is the intent to recognize them in front of others.
Treat People Equally
We are all a part of the human race and deserve to be recognized equally. You Matter!
Being recognized by someone important to me elevates my mood to a euphoric level of happiness. This isn't about thanking people for their kindness; it's about taking a moment from your day to recognize someone special in your life. A simple text saying “I acknowledge you” can transform someone's day into something beautiful. Life's struggles vary for each of us, and implementing this can truly make someone feel cherished. Without acknowledgment, we might question our significance to others. I truly believe that lack of recognition can hurt feelings, and we should ensure we do our part. We're all in this together; let's collaborate for a brighter future. I acknowledge ALL of you!
“Recognize that every interaction you have is an opportunity to make positive impact on others.” – Shep Hyken
MUCH LOVE
XOXO
This is so awesome Amanda! I agree that you should acknowledge people! It is a nice gesture and can make a big difference in someone’s day if not their life! I also am big on sending cards for no reason or just a quick message to say hi, thinking about you, have a nice day! It also helps the one acknowledging to feel good about themselves as being a nice and thoughtful person. Thanks for the wonderful article and insight. I appreciate you and your positivity and kindness.